Anayansia Family Member Joined: 25 Aug 2007 12:55 AM Last activity: 31 Dec 1969 05:00 PM BioHi my name's Anayansia and I'm 33 yrs old. I live in Miami, Florida and my boyfriend Chris lives in Cambridge, Mass. Yes, we currently live 1800 miles apart from each other (we are in a long distance relationship), and it get harder and harder after we spend quality time together. We apart due that I am attempting to finish my A.S. Degree in Paralegal Studies (10 more classes) here in Miami at Miami Dade College before I move up to Cambridge, Mass. next year (hopefully in July 2008). Additionally, I work for three partner Law Firm in Downtown Miami in the legal field practices of Bodily Injury, PIP Suit, Criminal, Commercial and Appellate Law. I recently had an ectopic pregnancy (08/07/07), which resulted in a spontaneous tubal abortion with really bad right and lower abdominal pains, difficult and painful defecation processes, which lead me to the ER on 8/07/07. Since the fertilized ovum's location was at the near end of my fallopian tube, it apparently was spontaneously resolved on its own. My boy Chris and I truly wanted to have this baby after we found out we were pregnant, but as anyone who's ever had an ectopic pregnancy knows, transplanting it into my uterus in not possible and keeping it in my tube would have been dangerous for me. After the loss I've been very depressed, but with my boyfriend, friends and family's unconditional support, I am much better now. My boyfriend is ok with us trying again, IF I am ready, but I'm so afraid of getting another ectopic pregnancy again, that emotionally and mentally, I feel we should wait a little while longer, even though there are times I really want to have a baby with him, we'll see how I feel later on down the road. Keep your fingers crossed for me if I ever do get pregnant again, please! |
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