Beth McHugh's comments

Defending Yourself against the Aging Narcissist (2) - Blog Entry

22 Oct 2009 05:28 PM

Just a reminder to all readers of the narcissism blogs that I have set up a forum specifically for adult children of NPDs. You can find it under "Forums" at my website at http://youronlinecounselor.com

Best wishes, Beth

How a Narcissist Thinks - Blog Entry

22 Oct 2009 05:27 PM

Just a reminder to all readers of the narcissism blogs that I have set up a forum specifically for adult children of NPDs. You can find it under "Forums" at my website at http://youronlinecounselor.com

Best wishes, Beth

When Your Child's Grandparent is a Narcissist - Blog Entry

22 Oct 2009 05:26 PM

Just a reminder to all readers of the narcissism blogs that I have set up a forum specifically for adult children of NPDs. You can find it under "Forums" at my website at http://youronlinecounselor.com

Best wishes, Beth

Should You Confront a Narcissist about their Narcissism? - Blog Entry

22 Oct 2009 05:25 PM

Just a reminder to all readers of the narcissism blogs that I have set up a forum specifically for adult children of NPDs. You can find it under "Forums" at my website at http://youronlinecounselor.com

Best wishes, Beth

Denying the Father's Role when Mother is a Narcissist - Blog Entry

22 Oct 2009 05:24 PM

Just a reminder to all readers of the narcissism blogs that I have set up a forum specifically for adult children of NPDs. You can find it under "Forums" at my website at http://youronlinecounselor.com

Best wishes, Beth

Narcissistic Parents and Rape - Blog Entry

22 Oct 2009 05:22 PM

Just a reminder to all readers of the narcissism blogs that I have set up a forum specifically for adult children of NPDs. You can find it under "Forums" at my website at http://youronlinecounselor.com

Best wishes, Beth

Dealing with a Narcissistic Mother - Blog Entry

22 Oct 2009 05:19 PM

Just a reminder to all readers of the narcissism blogs at I have set up a forum specifically for adult children of NPDs. You can find it under "Forums" at my website at http://yourolinecounselor.com

Best wishes, Beth

Dealing with a Narcissistic Mother - Blog Entry

15 Oct 2009 02:25 AM

Hi Leahinlove, we all tend to be attracted to what is familiar. Even if the familiar is destructive, like alcoholism, for example. Makes no sense on one level but psychologically it makes perfect sense. You are attracted to these men because of your upbringing but as you have successfully extracted yourself physically from your mother's condition you will be able to work towards finding a more suitable partnr. But something is keeping you hooked to unsuitable men, and this would imply that there is still a link to your mother. Try journaling the similarity between your mother's behavior and one or more of these men you have dated. Doing this ma be useful in locating what is keeping you stuck. If you need additional help you can cpontact me at http://yourolinecounselor.com

Best wishes, Beth

Escaping the Trap of the Narcissistic Mother - Blog Entry

15 Oct 2009 02:17 AM

Hi Bearwithme, your mother has made you a "parentified child" but you already know what that means and feel like. However, you are recognizing both the actions of your mother and the effect they have had on you and unfortunatly still continue to do . You do not "suck", you are a valuable and worthwhile person. And you are not 6 years old either. Ironically it is your mother who is operating at that emotional level! You have long surpassed her and your depression and anxiety are evidence of that. They are telling you their is something wrong. Although you feel bad about your emotions and about yourself, they are like a cloak that your mother has placed on you and you have unquestioningly adopted. As any child would because our parents are gods when we are young. You can step out from your mother's shadow. Keep reading as much as you can about this disorder -- it follows a pattern and you can escape. Contact me at http://youronlinecounselor.com if you need additional help. Best wishes, Beth

The Aging Narcissistic Parent (2) - Blog Entry

15 Oct 2009 02:06 AM

Hi Sadme and also Grizelda for your input while the Families computer has been having hiccups. Sadme, there is a way out of this situation but it is no wonder that you are feeling out of control of your life. Your mother appears to hold all the power and your sibling have left you holding the bag. In reality your mother only has the power you allow hr but when you have been brought up by an NPD mother, this seems hard to believe because of the years of careful training and grooming you have undergone. Many have been in your situation and taken control, you can too. I'm glad you derived some comfort form the blogs and all the contributors comments. If you need extra help you can always contact me at http://youronlinecounselor.com Keep reading and learning all you can about the disorder. Best wishes, Beth