Beth McHugh's comments

Coping with an adult with Asperger's (3) - Blog Entry

28 May 2008 06:45 PM

Hi again NPC, you can find articles on Adults with Asperger's by clicking on the Autism and Asperger's Disorder link on the right-hand side of all my Mental Health blogs. Be aware that Asperger's has become one of the "buzz" disorders at the moment and many people, especially children, are unwittingly diagnosed with the disorder when they do not have it at all. Again if you need assistance in helping you determine whether you may of may not have Asperger's you can contact me at http://youronlinecounselor.com

Given your previous comments, Asperger's does not appear probable.

Dealing with a Passive-Aggressive Manipulator (1) - Blog Entry

28 May 2008 06:39 PM

Hi NPC, There are several tips of dealing with passive-aggressive people in http://mental-health.families.com/blog/dealing-with-a-passive-aggressive-manipulator-2

You may also like to read my blogs on Narcissistic Personality Disorder. You can locate this category by clicking on the link on the right-hand side of the Mental Health blogs.

If you cannot make headway with these tips alone, you might consider counseling if you find the situation is having an adverse effect on your life. You can contact me at http://youronlinecounselor.com

The best gift a father can give his child - Blog Entry

28 May 2008 06:32 PM

Hi NPC, Feeling loved and cherished as a child gives a person an immense advantage in life. So, it is likely you would have at least been happier in a stable household. Yet, as adults, we have to let go of our childhood legacy and take responsibility for our own lives. It is not fair that some people are born into loving families and others quite the opposite, but at the end of the day, we are all responsible for our own happiness. Even children from happy stable homes can end up with miserable lives due to life circumstances and bad choices. There are some "filthy humans" out there and I deal with clients who suffer at the hands of these people. Yet the human spirit can overcome much adversity. I'm sorry to hear that you have given up on relationships. I can understand that, I really can. Yet it is also a choice of yours. I don't really believe you have really lost all hope, you wouldn't be reading my blogs if you had! As for the nature versus nurture debate, both factors are important, and we must never loose sight of how our own thinking shapes our reality.

Three Ways to Cope with Stress When Pregnant - Blog Entry

24 May 2008 08:01 PM

Hi NeedHelp, has your wife's behavior suddenly changed since she became pregnant? If she has not always been "difficult" there may be many reasons for her current behavior. Perhaps it wasn't a planned pregnancy and she is feeling out of control and desperately trying to regain control at any price. She may have issues with your parents or she may even have issues with you that the pregnancy has brought to a head. I am a psychologist and the resident Families Mental Health blogger. If you feel you or your wife would benefit from counseling, you can contact me at http://youronlinecounselor.com

I know you said your wife has refused counseling, but often when one partner starts,the other will follow. It would be good if she could sort out this issue because the ongoing stress that is causing her behavior is no good for her, yours or the baby's health. Best wishes, Beth

Gay Marriage Legal Again in California - Blog Entry

15 May 2008 08:17 PM

Hi Courtney, thanks for blogging about this, I know gay rights activists will be thrilled.

Having Trouble Talking to Your Teen: Try the Car! - Blog Entry

15 May 2008 05:38 PM

Thank you for your anecdotal evidence, Dale! Thankfully your boys didn't drop any bombs while you were negotiating a particularly difficult corner!

Setting Healthy Boundaries for Your Children (3) - Blog Entry

13 May 2008 05:14 PM

I'm sure most parents can watch SuperNanny and Brat Camp and feel that their kids aren't so bad, and yet still see that the behavior of their own children may be in a milder form yet still have the same basis. Both shows are educational in that they start the parent thinking about change. It also gives a guide on what to avoid unless you actually want a brat!

Who's to Blame, Me or Him? - Blog Entry

12 May 2008 03:24 PM

Hi Courtney, I can tell you that having expectations that do not relate to reality equals unhappiness! It is even worse when your expectations are not all that unreasonable. It seems to be even harder to accept that your expectations are not met when that is the case. It can make you feel betrayed and be the cause of much sadness and anger. Sounds like you're on the right track, though!

Cocaine: Side Effects and Long-term Effects - Blog Entry

12 May 2008 03:28 AM

There are better treatments for depression than cocaine. He has unwittingly given himself two problems to sort out, I hope he can get the help he needs and come through this. I can appreciate that you are worried, I would be worried if he were my friend too.

Are You a Cyberchondriac? - Blog Entry

12 May 2008 03:25 AM

Hi Timada, it can be scary to go see a doctor or other medical specialist but your friend would kick herself if something went undiagnosed that could have been treated or she had unnecessary side effects. I know doctors can be very unhelpful but as good as the Internet is, it's no substitute for a real diagnosis. I hope your friend will try again.