Playing games is a great way to spend time together as a family. But you also want to make sure that the activity is a success and not something that causes you to not want to speak to each other. To ensure that you having a successful game night follow these five simple steps:
1. Set a date. Make sure that everyone in your family is aware that you are having a family game night and that everyone is expected to be there. Setting a date shows that you value family time and gives family member something to look forward to. Limit your game night to your immediate family. This promotes a feeling of family unity and bonds family relationships.
2. No interruptions. Make sure that you turn off the T.V. and radio. Remind your children that you won’t be answering the phone or doorbell. Game night is all about family and of course games.
3. Choose a game. This can be the most difficult step. If you have varied age levels try a game that appeals to a wide range of ages like Memory, Uno, or Charades–type games. You might play two or three games throughout the evening. A younger child can partner up with mom or dad when playing a game that older children enjoy more.
4. Play a variety. Don’t always play the same type of game. There are card games, board games, and group games that require running around or acting. (There are lost of game ideas listed in Family Fun.) Choose a variety of games that require skill or involve pure luck. So those that are not as game savvy have an equal chance at winning.
5. Teaching opportunity. Playing games can be a great teaching opportunity. Games help teach children to follow directions, keep the rules, play fair, take turns, and how to be a good loser and winner. Before playing the game make sure that everyone knows how to play. Then as the game progresses reemphasize the need for taking turns and playing fair. When the game is over don’t focus on the fact that there was a winner and a loser, but that everyone had a good time just playing the game.