Preschoolers learn a sense of responsibility from performing chores. A child who has chores is learning to be independent and confident. A parent has opportunities to praise and encourage good behavior and accomplishment. Establishing a routine and keeping a chore chart keep the child accountable to the tasks at hand. Having a “job” will build the child’s self esteem and placement in the family unit.
What can a parent do to help?
Parents need to remember that the chores will not be completed perfectly or the level they would like. Keep in mind that giving a child a chore is not about getting the task done but about teaching the child. To maximize the effort of the child the parent should perform the chore with the child several times before allowing the child to complete the task on his own. It is okay to explain to the child that something was done incorrectly as long as it is done in a positive manner. For instance, if your child overfills the dog bowl you simply say, “I am happy you filled the dog bowl. Good job, however, let’s remember next time to only fill it to the top so the food stays in the bowl.”
What are appropriate chores for a preschooler?
Chores will depend on maturity and capability of the child. Your child may not be able to perform some chores listed and that is fine. At this point we are trying to establish a sense of worth, responsibility and place in the family. Chores may not be performed effectively so we praise the effort even if we have to help or must close our eyes to a larger mess.
Dust: A child can dust using a feather duster or a sock placed on the hand like a mitten. No chemicals should be used with a child.
Crack eggs: My children have always loved cracking eggs. My two year old can crack an egg with some help without making a mess or getting shells in the bowl. If you are worried about the shells have the child crack an egg in a separate bowl first.
Feed pets: Give the child a scooper for the amount you want your dog to eat to minimize dog food all over the floor.
Toy pick up: A child can develop the habit of putting his toys away as young as 2.
Clear and or set the table: This chore may require help but it is nice if the family meal ended with family clean up.
Help in the kitchen: Kids love to help in the kitchen. Studies have shown that children who help in the kitchen eat the meal presented better than children who do not. Use caution when a child is in the kitchen.