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Olympic-Sized Stress for Parents

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Have you seen this video of US gymnast Aly Raisman’s mom and dad as they watch their child prodigy complete her uneven bars routine at the Olympic Games?

NBC showed Ricky and Lynn Raisman debut their own choreographed routine in the bleachers last night during its primetime coverage.

If medals were given out for the most amusing ways parents of Olympians dealt with nervous energy, Ma and Pa Raisman would have taken home the gold last night.

London is nearly a half world away from my living room, yet I could feel their stress as I sat glued to my TV screen.

Sure, I am a parent of a young daughter, who happens to love cartwheeling through our living and dining rooms, but I don’t think you have to be a mom or dad to relate to the anxiety the Raismans felt last night.

Just ask the millions of folks who’ve clicked on the YouTube link and snickered as they’ve watched Ricky and Lynn bob, weave, squirm, wince, and roll their torsos in near perfect unison while their daughter competed on the world stage.

The Raismans looked like synchronized swimmers (minus the water) in their bleacher seats. The only break I witnessed was when Rick shot out of his seat and pumped his fist in the air when Aly stuck her dismount.

I can barely stand to watch my daughter sing during her school’s children’s Mass—-and that’s with 20 other kids standing next to her—-so imagining what it is like watching your child compete at the Olympics after years of blood, sweat, tears and incredible sacrifice is unfathomable to me.

Other parents of Olympians admitted to NBC’s Bob Costas that they can only watch their kids perform through tiny slits in the fingers they place over their eyes, while still others say they get so nervous they stand outside the venue until their child has completed his or her event.

Clearly, parents deal with the stress of watching their children reach for their dreams in a variety of ways. Sadly, some people, who viewed the Raisman’s public display of jitters, felt the need to poke fun at them. A few went so far as to call the dedicated parents “crazy,” “eccentric” and “over the top.”

Their daughter is competing in the Olympics for crying out loud. Do the stakes get any higher for an athlete?

I’m all for the Raismans working through their anxiety with their patented harmonized and hilarious moves. In fact, I can’t wait for Aly to make a run for individual all-around gold.

How would you react if your child were competing for Olympic hardware?

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About Michele Cheplic

Michele Cheplic was born and raised in Hilo, Hawaii, but now lives in Wisconsin. Michele graduated from the University of Wisconsin-Madison with a degree in Journalism. She spent the next ten years as a television anchor and reporter at various stations throughout the country (from the CBS affiliate in Honolulu to the NBC affiliate in Green Bay). She has won numerous honors including an Emmy Award and multiple Edward R. Murrow awards honoring outstanding achievements in broadcast journalism. In addition, she has received awards from the Aircraft Owners and Pilots Association for her reports on air travel and the Wisconsin Education Association Council for her stories on education. Michele has since left television to concentrate on being a mom and freelance writer.