This past Sunday my church hosted its annual “Graduation Recognition” night. I really appreciate the fact that they honor our high school graduates. It is yet another way they invest in the lives of the children and youth.
In addition to uplifting music, a time of prayer, a reception and other enjoyable aspects, the youth pastor gave a great sermon on “remaking yourself.” He talked about how these graduates have the opportunity to start with a fresh, clean slate. They can be whoever they want to be.
Oftentimes in high school you get labeled. Or you are seen as being one way and you really want people to have a different perspective. But it can be difficult to change these things.
It is hard to explain to a teenager who is going through a rough time that it will all be over with before they know it. Although it is true (what is four years in the span of a lifetime), they can’t see past the moment.
When high school is difficult, for whatever reason, it can feel like the end of the world. If we could just convince teens to hold on and assure them that they will make it through, it would be wonderful.
But that is the great thing about high school finally coming to an end. You can remake yourself.
My son has had some difficult moments in high school. He is quiet and shy, an easy target for some. But now he is about to begin a new adventure, in the military. He will definitely have a chance to remake himself.
Whether your teen is going off to college, entering the workforce or joining the military, share with them this grand opportunity that they have. If they haven’t liked who they have been or they want to get rid of the labels, this is their chance to be remade.
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