When it comes to technology and teenagers I have decided that if you can’t beat ‘em, then join ‘em. I know that some parents feel very strongly about the advances in technology and that they are messing some kids up. Not only are there the bigger issues with the dangers that can be found in technology (pedophiles accessing our children, sexting, and so on) but there are other smaller concerns that are just as important.
Some critics of technology feel that our children are lacking in social skills because there is less face-to-face interacting and more technological interacting. Some teachers are tired of seeing children misspell words in papers because they have adopted a new technological language (ie. LOL = laugh out loud, luv = love, etc.). Yes, there are some definite downfalls to the advances in technology. But it is part of our culture and we can’t really stop it. I think as parents we should learn to embrace it.
We can use the advances in technology to have some serious discussions about the dangers that are involved. We can never assume our children won’t fall prey. We need to not only have discussions but we have to be vigilant about their use. There are so many ways we can keep them safe while they are immersed in this electronic-age. Whether it’s the TV, a cell phone or the computer there are software programs, blocking capabilities and other settings that can help.
As a parent of teens I have decided to become part of this new culture. I have a Facebook account and I love to text. I own a computer, a cell phone and an Ipod. I am not naïve to the advances in technology. Just being part of it all helps keep you in the loop.
I have also used it to my advantage. I discovered that I get more information out of my teenage son if I text him. I have also enjoyed instant messaging with my daughter while she was upstairs in her bedroom and I was downstairs in our family room. We had a pretty funny conversation that took place. My daughter has also sent me some nice e-cards. I guess the point is that I have decided to become part of their culture and embrace it rather than try to fight against it. At the same time, I try to make sure it doesn’t overtake any of us.
We can’t really change the times we are living in and the culture our children are immersed in. So rather than fighting against it we can become part of it.
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