Deciding to get married is a big step in a relationship. In some long and lengthy relationships, it seems that marriage is the only step left to take. In other relationships, marriage comes quicker and more as a surprise.
No matter how the decision to get married comes about, there are some things that a couple should consider and discuss before taking the plunge into forever together.
When we make other important decisions in our life, we weigh the options, research, and give it much consideration. However, it seems that some people put little thought into spending the rest of their lives with another. More thought actually goes into planning the wedding than the ever after.
Money
Before marriage, couples should discuss their finances. How will the bills be paid and how will money be saved. What kind of budget will the couple live on? What is each partner’s spending style? What types of accounts will you have? How much will your combined income be?
Sex
Believe it or not sex should also be talked about before marriage. Most couples have a hard time expressing their feelings about their love life. It is impossible for each mate to know what the other needs or wants without discussion of the subject. It may be awkward at first but talking about it can save a lot of confusion and heartache in the future.
Children
You think that a topic this big would be discussed right from the beginning. However before marriage, many couples never talk about whether or not they want children. If you want children, you normally assume that your partner does also. This may not always be the case. For those of us who have never thought of life without babies, it can be hard to believe that there are those out there who never see themselves with children.
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