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Islam and the Non-Muslim Wife - Blog Entry

28 Jun 2009 06:17 AM

Hi Rareren

If you read these messages you will see that there isn't a one-answer-fits-all solution. Muslims, like people of other faiths, tend to interpret religious requirements to suit their own situations. You should also be aware of the huge differences between religion and culture and not get them confused. If your b/f's family is traditional and religious, you will probably find it hard to be accepted, especially as westerners / unbelievers are seen by many as a corrupting influence. Love won't necessarily overcome difficulties in an Islamic / non-Islamic relationship. I suggest you talk, talk, talk and both be very clear about your expectations in the long term. Read up all you can about his religion and culture. Be prepared. Bear in mind that soemtimes, differences are too great. But good luck