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The Art of Sleeping Together - Blog Entry

07 Jul 2009 11:25 PM

I wish it was as easy as you make it sound. My husband can list a million excuses not to hold me .. the worst part is that they're all valid excuses. I know that it's hot and that he has to wake up early and that he has other more important stuff to do. I know that. but how can you tell a man you are not fulfilling my needs without hurting his feelings? and why would a man hold in all his emotions and desires after 6 years of dating, 2 years of marriage, and one baby! you can only ask for a hug or a kiss so many times before you feel rejected and humiliated. I have begged for it at times only to be told " it's ok.. just go to sleep" I'm still trying to be strong and keep my husband and my family because that's the right thing to do. Deep inside of me, i don't have the feelings i had for him once before, and other than our son, I can't find a reason to live, much less in this place.