27 Jun 2009 07:57 PM

jekyl/hyde wife

I am lost and don't know what to do! My wife is a good mom, a good person and shares my moral beliefs. I am still physically attracted to her and she makes the effort to keep herself looking great.She can be quite loving at times however it is when she needs intimacy.She claims she doesn't like it when I don't enjoy it but lately I don't and that is because of the way I am being treated, the way she treats the children at times, and the way she treats my parents.She seriously can go from sweetness to devil in under a minute. You never know when or what will set her off. I am no angel but I am being brutally honest when I say that! She says many condesending and belittleing things to me even when as a christian couple we are taking a class and the assignment forbids her that and my job is to do things without her asking which I doand then I get belittled for not doing them right! I asked her the other day if it was alright if my parents could come down and stay a week. She does have issues with my parents being overinvolved though very giving and loving. She said as long as I give her a break when she needs it. She was smiling and in general good humor. 2 days later out of nowhere she asks me when they are coming which we already talked about, and then where they are staying which we also talked about. She left the room with her hands on her face. 2 minutes later she asks me to come into the bedroom and says "what in the hell gave you the idea it was ok to invite your parents here for a week when you know I cant stand them for a day! I lost it as my life has been full of these moments lately. I have tried to be supportive and reasonable with what I expect from her but even though she has to have a hysterectomy (keeping ovaries) is no reason for this behavior. I am in constant fibromyalgia pain and I don't do it to her.It has gotten progressively worse over the last 2 years and ive all but had enough of being torn down...me and the kids...they say it with nothing from me...they see and feel it too!

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