hajooora's comments

What are You Feeding Your Baby?

22 May 2009 12:46 PM

salaam aleykom i think you are right,but just for fun,i want to ask you all why are you buing the already made purees? perhaps it seems a stupid question but actually i have a reason to to this :) what do you have in your fridge? fruits,vegetables,and meat,yes?so why do you have to buy and spend your money on this already made purees witch are slowly distroing your kid.where are the vitamins,the proteins witch he needs?nowere,do you belive everything what it is written on a label? you shouldn't my son was premature,so he was under waight...but ALHAMDULULLAH,in no time he start puting waight abd now he is a very helthy boy. i used just the milk recomanded by the dr but i never used this already made purees...i was making them...it is so easy to cook them and it is healthy,every day a new food,every day something new and fun for him to eat,i never gived him cookis alredy made or this cucu sweets,i was baking and instead fo giving him a choclolate i was giving him fruits and now,he is not evan eatin junk food like the other kids,not because i dont let him but because i teached him the difference between helthy food and bad food. now he is 4 years old and he eats just cooked food,he doesnt like evan the smell of the food from McDonald,or KFC etc. perhaps we have a different life style in europe then in us but it is certanly healthier

wa alecum salaam

Non-Muslim Woman: Should You Marry a Muslim Man?

22 May 2009 12:10 PM

salaam aleykom onceuponamuslim ,you have a very bad impression about islam,first of all you are mistaking religion with tradition... who said that you are obligated to clean and cook and take care of YOUR kids if you dont want,while your husband is out with his friends? first of all when you are married and you REALLY LOVE your husband you do this things out of love for him.but if you ware a muslim you know that evan the profet (sa) helpd his wifes around the house and he was evan sawing his shouse ... if you had a problem with your husband in rasing up your kids or in his relationship with his moter...that is your personal problem....what you are doind,talking bad about muslim man,it is HARAM my dear,why?because not all are like your husband i am muslim,i am a muhagiba, ALHAMDULILLAH for all this,and my husband is a muslim,and he is NOTHING like your husband....everything comes from the lack of faith in Allah if your husband would have followed the Holly QURAN as he should have he would'n t act like this with you i am really sorry for what happened to you but this is not the fault of Islam,it is the fault of your husband and sayng bad things about muslims and interpreting the Quran as you like it that is a big mistake because if you know witch is the punishment for all this,evan for leaving the islam .... May ALLAH guide you and give you peace and show you the beauty of islam