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Islam and the Non-Muslim Wife

26 Jul 2008 04:28 PM

I have been dating a Pakistani Muslim man for several months. This week I discovered he was married. His marriage was prearranged and over the telephone to a woman in Pakistan. He is a citizen of the US. He was married the week before we met. He has said that he loves me, he doesn't love her. He didn't tell me because he never expected to fall in love with me when we met. He thought we could be together until his life of imprisonment in a system he cannot change started. Is this how these things really work? Can he not be with me if he wants? She is still in Pakistan awaiting her visa. What happens if his family finds out about me? Do I need to be looking over my shoulder? Thanks for any information you can give me.