IamWHO's commentsComments On: EverythingArticles Blogs Journals Photos created by: EveryoneIamWHO Romance - Journal Entry02 Apr 2008 04:31 PM Hehe. Yes, and kissing is very important to me. Loving somebody, but hating to kiss them... Why complicate your life? Removed - Journal Entry02 Apr 2008 12:10 AM I am so sorry. How horrible. This is neglect and I do feel it's abusive. Neglect and disrespect are forms of abuse. Looking at porn instead of you is infidelity. Thinking about extramarital sex it is pretty close to doing it. You need things to change and quickly. This is no environment for a child. I think you should give him the option of going to a marriage counselor so that you can be around an objective person who can help him understand how you feel and help you guys change your relationship for the better. If he won't do it or won't make any changes then I think you should leave at least temporarily to show him you are serious and if he wants you to stay he has to make some changes. Then if he still doesn't change, then I think there is nothing you can do. It's about your child and how is this situation supposed to teach her her own role in this world. She needs two parents and you need support. Motherhood is so difficult. I'm not a mother, but recently took my 9 month old nephew for almost two weeks. OH MY GOSH!!!!!! Your man has ABSOLUTELY NO CLUE what you go through and needs to wake up quickly. I am not one to support divorce at all, except in cases of abuse and infidelity. And I feel you are headed towards an abusive situation. And your infant should not be in and environment where there is regular fighting. It's one thing to be a homemaker and another to be a mother to an infant AND a homemaker AND a personal maid to a complete slob. He is showing you a major lack of respect and it's not going to get better on it's own. Tags - Article01 Apr 2008 10:59 PM Cool. Thanks Carson. I never thought of using tags to keep track things I like. Great tip. Newly wed learning her way... - Journal Entry01 Apr 2008 09:41 PM Well, they do say that you not only marry your spouse, but also their family. I hope things get better. I'm engaged and dealing with something similar with my father-in-law. He is Catholic and I am protestant. His son is not Catholic and his father is upset that we will not have a Catholic wedding and may not even come to the wedding. But we live in different states, so it's not a major problem yet; but I hope this doesn't bring more future problems. I'm hoping that with time things will get better for the both of us. Does this make sense? - Journal Entry01 Apr 2008 09:34 PM Well, iron deficiency is kinda easy to diagnose: exhaustion, dizziness when standing from a sitting position, pale lips, ridges in nails... but where is that bottle? That is enough to make any good parent worry. And he should have answered you. I think he just doesn't want to work with you...like he's trying to irritate you or create conflict. The fact that he didn't respond though makes me think that he knew exactly what they were, because if he didn't know most likely he would have freaked like you were. But if you are still worried then the pharmacist may be able to identify them for you. However, it sounds to me like it's perfectly innocent. But a person can OD on iron, so with something like that, she should probably have the bottle. If she is taking the iron pill, then she also takes a multi with iron, she could be taking too much. Some cereals are also really high in iron. You might want to get her her own iron supplement so that you have the bottle and know the dosage for sure; and since she's younger it should probably not be a really high dose. I've been recommended by my doctor Slow-Fe. It is an extended release so she's not getting it all at once. Good luck. *Sigh* To be pampered. - Journal Entry01 Apr 2008 09:21 PM Yes. You did really make me want to get my hair cut. It's been ummmmmm almost six months. And there's nothing like the feeling when you walk out of there...it's a feeling that lasts for weeks: a freshness. The wonders of Ebay - Journal Entry01 Apr 2008 09:15 PM Haven't sold anything yet, but I did buy some really cool stuff for amazingly cheap. SCORE!!! Wow! - Journal Entry01 Apr 2008 09:13 PM Hi. Glad to see you posted a new one. Checked out your scrapbooking blog and put it in my favorites. I SO want that paper scraps and scissor bag...and I'm jealous about your table space. I need more flat surfaces... Summer's End - Journal Entry01 Apr 2008 05:50 AM I get the same problem...but I get these A's with marks over them and diamonds with question marks in them. Apostrophe's do something funny too...tried posting a question in the forum like a year ago, but nobody answered the question. ??? Weird huh. So, when ya gonna post a new one? 1 2 |
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