IamWHO's comments

The beginning of the end.

04 Apr 2007 01:39 AM

I commend you on your loyalty and endurance to hang in as long as you did, but what you should really be proud about now is your ability to put your foot down and take control of your life and the future of your family. That is the hardest step, and takes strength.

My first love and I were together off and on for many years. We always got along pretty well, until he became a meth addict. It got pretty bad and he did some really crazy things. He did eventually come out of it and was very sorry for his behavior. He had to make some pretty dramatic changes to get control of his life. He’s living in Korea! Things are great between us and our seventeen-year friendship means we can talk about anything, but we are not a couple. I just can’t think of him that way anymore. Not after everything. And he can’t promise me that he won’t ever do it again. That alone is such a turn-off. But I will always have him in my life. Things will get better, but it will take time. Do what is best for you and it will be good for all.