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Adults with Asperger's Disorder - Blog Entry

01 Mar 2008 09:11 PM

Hello

I am at loss with what to do with my husband and I fear he suffers from Aspberger. I have always wanted an explanation for his behaviour but I am scared when I read this and see how familiar it seems.

My husband is 32, we got married September last year. He is a fisherman, or is trying to be and shows little to no interest in anything besides fishing. It is intense and he will not stop talking once he has started.

Our physical life is lacking. He hates hugs and embraces. Cannot cuddle or hold hands since he feels i am crowding him. I cannot talk to him, he shows no interest in what i say and thinks i only talk about boring things. He has a hard time functioning with me sexually and has to resort to adult movies to get off. He doesnt even look at me when we have sex.

I am patient because I love him so, but I dont know for how much longer. He shows no responibility and I do everything, including work fulltime. He sits at home and is depressed, on medication now.

I need a hug