julie333's commentsComments On: EverythingArticles Blogs Journals Photos created by: Everyonejulie333 Dealing with a Narcissistic Mother - Blog Entry21 Jul 2007 05:33 AM this rings very true i will look forward to reading your artile, thankyou Dealing with a Narcissistic Mother - Blog Entry20 Jul 2007 02:14 PM i feel my mother has this disorder. she has always been critical and played me and me sister against each other. she can only be nice to one person at a time. if you are doing excactly what she wants you are her best friend but if you show your own mind and it is against her belieifs she can be really spitefull. i used to be there for her all the time, i felt really responsibe, she would always have a way of making you feel bad. we recently had a silly argument she told me to give her some space then she turned the whole argument around and stopped paying back the money that she owes me and my partner. she used the row as an excuse to justify not paying us. it was allot of money. she has told every one how awfull we are but will not mention the money. its like she lives in a selective world. she has double standards and a very negative personality. she is hard on me and my sister but spoils my brothers rotten to the point of covering up their mistakes. when i used to visit she would complain about everybody and everything. she recently sent me an email critising my abilities as a parent, partner and daughter. she has also said that she will never forgive me as we are moving away with our children and never to contact her again. i feel very sad because i have lost my mum but i also know that now i am 30 i have to make my own dcisions. i used to be scared of her and still am, i stood up to her and beause of that i have lost her. i know though that being around this type of person can only have a negative impact on your life, even if they are your mother. i love her to bits but sometimes the best thing to do is nothing and do whats right for you. |
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