30 Dec 2008 11:03 PM

Tolerence - The Shadow of Love

.....Relationship Dynamics

Tolerance is a key principle that would keep married partners together. In addition, honesty and commitment are the critical tools that married couples use in building integrity. Social policy makers may also contribute during the construction process of a family. Apart from the principles in which married partners share, formulated rules and regulations help significantly to guard marriage.

Researchers have come out with key findings on marriage and commitment. “83 % of unwed mothers reported being romantically involved with the father at the time of their child’s birth and are either cohabiting (50%) or seeing each other frequently (33%).” ( See Argument Report 2007/8).In a continued report, “a majority of unmarried mothers (65%) identified ‘showing love and affection to the child’ as the most important quality the father could offer the child.” ( See Argument Report 2007/8).This case study shows that marriage is highly rewarded by the majority of our society.

As a student from a country of unique culture and history, I possess a quality that reflects the cultural breadth and the historical depth of my society. Marriage is highly rewarded in the society I grew up. Despite the financial constraints the majority of citizenry has been facing, I would say tolerance which shadows love and commitment which fosters unity has helped married couples to stay together. In addition to that faith has played the biggest role for couples to exercise in action. In my point of view, bitterness should not take root in a happy family. Happiness is a choice, hence for children to grow and live with enthusiasm parents should decide and abide the literal definition of commitment.

While diversity and tolerance has been the source of strength for this nation, why not we ask our selves then of the crucial factors affecting family break ups. Although it is impossible to generalize circumstances which lead to beak up, the most critical reason for the continued decline rate of fragile families is due to parents’ inability to commit, and to tolerate. Plus, inability to defeat disappointments contributes to the decaying rate of marriage. Hence, disappointments, more over break ups, could be defeated if adequately funded counseling services are widely available in unfavorable times in which couples endure.

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