Makingitright's comments

Surviving Separation

27 Oct 2006 08:46 AM

I am moving out next week and my husband still wants to see one another during our trial separation. He feels that he has lot himself through countless compromises and I feel so guilty fro being so controlling that a separation seems perfectly appropriate.

I love this article as it states everything that I am feeling and everything that we have agreed upon. Thankfully, there are no children to explain things to and he has been so supportive while, at the same time, standng his ground about getting time alone and that is refreshing as it seems he has already begun to find himself again!

He swears there is no other woman or cheating issues involved and agreed that dating others would not be appropriate. Once I admitted a tinge of excitement about living on my own, it relieved a lot of tension almost immediately.