mcmama's commentsComments On: Everything Articles Blogs Journals Photos created by: Everyonemcmama CHRISTMAS HELP!!!!07 Dec 2008 06:36 AM You are not alone, many people are facing foreclosure. Here in FL, the governor has suspended foreclosures for the month of December. While you will get sympathy here, please do not post in your journal or on the forums asking for direct support of money or gifts. Sometimes people do this and we have to remove the requests, because they can lead to fraud and abuse. Good luck to you. you will be missed uncle mike12 Aug 2008 07:31 PM This is very difficult for you to survive. But survive you must. Losing one we love to a violent death takes some piece of us with it too. One of the things I have found that has helped me survive all the death in my family that I experienced at a young age is to realize that what I shared with deceased family members is special, and still very much a part of me. If your uncle raised you, then he has passed that on to you. You miss him terribly, and you are in great pain. You will heal eventually, but it will take time. And your life will be an affirmation of his own. You will survive, and some day you will thrive. Just now, give yourself time to recover from this devastating blow. I hope there is justice for you and for your uncle. Does this make sense?21 Apr 2008 06:15 PM Iron deficiency is a symptom of other diseases. And if she has misdiagnosed herself, she could be hurting herself with iron supplements. get her to a doctor, have the diagnosis confirmed, whether or not x approves. You have the right to know, and this girl could be damaging her heart, liver, and kidneys. Makeup And Beauty Tips21 Aug 2007 09:19 AM Journals are not for spam, or to direct to blogs offsite. Journals are to share thoughts and ideas with members onsite, not direct them offsite. Arizona Auto Insurance12 Jun 2007 08:26 PM We'd rather you not turn your journal into a purely advertising piece. Thanks. Is there really a single parent who understands?24 May 2006 10:51 AM I am at an age where "moving on" has not meant finding a new husband. I have found a local support group of men and women whose divorces involved a particular type of infidelity. There have been a few matches from that group, and we rejoice when they happen, but that is not the emphasis. We get together, share our stories, our perspectives, and we have a good time. The perspective of these people helps tremendously. Because of the limitations imposed on me for custody sharing, I haven't been able to truly "move on" yet in terms of it being safe to pursue anything with a man, and time is fleeting for that to be an option. Most guys prefer younger women, with good reason. But as my kids grow up, we are moving forward. I really can't date or go looking to introduce a new person into an intimate relationship when as you say, life is messed up. Also, I just don't have the energy for it. Raising the kids and supporting them through their recovery has been plenty for me to focus on. The financial pressure is unrelenting. My suggestion is to find a network of friends who have something in common, whether it is single parenting, divorce, or single people who enjoy a particular activity like hiking, dinner, line dancing, folk music, whatever floats your boat. It isn't about dating it's about getting out and moving on with life in general. When my mom was widowed at 50, raising two teens, she kept the best of her old friends, but a lot of the couples she and my dad had socialized with sort of faded away. She had a new circle of friends, some of them couples, but all with common interests and connections where she fit at that point in her life. Some people tried to hook her up with dates, but she just wasn't interested. It was just a new part of her life, and she got some understanding from other parents, single and married. |
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