michelledawn02's comments

Three Ways to Cope with Stress When Pregnant

24 May 2008 05:39 PM

Hello needhelp, Sounds like you need some serious help. I am currently 10 weeks pregnant. I am not married but I have a boyfriend and he has been driving me crazy and we have been fighting over some stuff lately. I can't see why your wife wouldn't want your parents to visit for the first 1.5 years maybe its because she is afraid of germs or getting the baby sick when actually the child is only more at risk for getting sick the first 2-3 months. My advice is that you just drop this topic and all other topics about when the baby is born until later in the pregnancy or until the baby is actually born. Her hormones are no doubt running very high right now so trying to pursuade her to see things your way probably wont go over so well. It will probably get better in the coming months and maybe if she talks to some other moms and realizes her fears are irrational she will give in. Hope I was of some help. Also, have you considered that maybe she just doesn't like your parents? Just a thought.