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Let's Talk About Having a Bicornuate Uterus - Blog Entry

01 Mar 2007 08:00 AM

I am 30 years old. On the 31st of December 2006 I had a miscarriage. I was 15 weeks pregnant. I have a bicornuate uterus. During my pregnancy I had three scares that resulted in severe bleeding and visits to hospital. Each time the doctor confirmed that the baby was fine. Throughout the pregnancy I was spotting and was bed bound. I am having a hard time dealing with the loss and I am very worried that I will continue to have problems and will not be able to carry a baby to full term. I would like to try again as I know the pregnancy road might be very difficult as I am in the high risk category. However, my boyfriend wants to wait a year or two before trying again. I have been with him for three years and live with him. I am not comfortable with the idea of trying again in a year or two years time primarily because I suspect that I will have difficult pregnancy. This is causing a rift in our relationship. I am having a hard time dealing with this and am considering leaving. I don't understand his reasons for waiting. We have a house and he is financial able. I am considering couple counselling but in the end the rejection feels too much for me to do with. Any advice?