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How to Ask for More Sex from Your Husband

22 Apr 2009 08:42 AM

20 years...My husband and I haven't even been together for 2! I'm expecting our 2nd child, and this whole pregnancy he has drifted away from me. I haven't gained much weight at all, and I can't even get him to kiss me half the time, he hardly hugs me...We have a great relationship for the most part, but I can't get him to have anything else to do with me other than conversation. I have to come to him for everything. He doesn't deny me if I want a kiss or a hug, but when it comes to sex he's not interested. Last night I went out for a bit and before I left whispered a few sexy things in his ear. He sounded really interested in what I had to say, but when I got home...nothing. I undressed while he was in the shower and waited for him. He just gets in the bed and watches t.v. WTF?! I asked why he didn't want to have sex with me and he said he did want to, but that was the end of the conversation. I sat there and nothing happened...so I layed down and went to sleep. I woke up this morning to him masturbating in the bathroom before work! It really hurt my feelings, and I feel so ugly. He then tries to come hug me and tell me he loves me, but yet he wont touch me....confusing.