This user has not uploaded any photos

Recent Journal Entries View All | Add Journal Entry

This user has not created any journal entries yet.

Recent Forum Entries Posts » | Threads »

12 Dec 2008 07:58 AM

hard time moving past afair

im not sure about the gym though, i know other married men who go to the gym, i do too and have made friends but thats it. he is a diabetic and it has been helping him.

12 Dec 2008 07:56 AM

hard time moving past afair

will, i have to wonder. because part of me is feeling like it isnt going to work. its been 4 months now. partley i dont want to feel like a fool again if he does it again.

12 Dec 2008 07:51 AM

re open 8 yearold concern?

My husband and i are working past an affair. the emotional ups and downs are finnaly getin less and less. this week though ihad an emotional week, just in my own head though.

08 Dec 2008 06:19 PM

How do I communicate this?

you are in no way making amountain out of a mole hill, this is your helath here, im sure you would understand if he took the kids to the doctor over seeing you. you have a few choices.

15 Nov 2008 03:40 PM

i need "email checkers anonymous"

okay, i am working on healing from my husbands affair. we are talking and seem to be moving forward. i am seeing a counselor. i have made a promise to myself not to check my husbands emails.

13 Nov 2008 07:13 PM

Need to vent somewhere

that is good that you want to talk and that she knows there is something wrong, Remember too, when you are talking to her , and you feel your voice rising , take a moment, leave the room for a...

12 Nov 2008 08:05 PM

Need to vent somewhere

Yes, sit down with her and tell her how you feel, try to do it not in attack mode. tell her that what she sais is hurtfull.

01 Nov 2008 08:48 AM

hard time moving past afair

Once again, Harry, your posts are an oppening to healing.

31 Oct 2008 04:13 PM

hard time moving past afair

chip, thanks for the great post, you are right, and i very much appreciate your words.

30 Oct 2008 04:38 PM

hard time moving past afair

i went to the councellor today, she is great, she puts what im feeling into words and it seems so clear then what im feeling.