Dwayne ONeil's comments

Cons of Living Together - Blog Entry

27 Dec 2008 09:03 AM

I could come accross as very old fashioned, however it is termed that way so folks can use it as an excuse to push it asside.

I am a man, so I know that man are natuarally lazy. In truth a man will admit he does not want to be responsible for anything. It takes disciple to hold back,knowing it is the best thing to do. We live in a culture that does not teach disciple in anything.

Statistics shoe overwhelmingly that most couples who have lived together and get married---DONT stay together! The simple reality is "if I can get everything I want (for a man that means sex) without being responsible without being tied(marriage), i'ii take it!" So after he has had everything 'for free', He marries and he realizes he became saddled with responsiblity. And sex didnt get any better!

The sexual part of life is suppose to be a gift that comes with the union on man and wife. The woman that knows he waited feels very important. The man feels more respected,if he marries a lady that kept herself for him.

I know this will be not so popular, but what is true is true...renegade-dad

Building a Hedge Around Your Marriage - Blog Entry

27 Dec 2008 08:39 AM

Thanks for the personal testimony! You could see ahead enough, to realize the potential for trouble and you acted on it immediately.....thankfully!

The 'love' that allows us to...death to us part..., is a deliberate act of will to be totally commited to that one person, on matter what! That is the kind of love that Jesus gives to us, the love that made it possible to do what He did on our behalf. Wow!