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    tom33411

    My daughter recently told me that she has been sleeping with her mother recently because my daughter’s bed is covered in junk and that her mom doesnt have the time to clean it off for her. The catch is that the mother sleeps only with a t-shirt on and my daughter sees the mother’s private areas when she wakes up in the mornings. Is this innapropriate? it just doesnt seem right to me.
    New/Additional Info:Okay, my daughter is 7 years old. Old enough to clean the stuff herself but would need a nudge from mom to actually do it. The reason her bed was covered in junk was because 3 weeks ago, they moved for the 5th time in 2 years. May I also add that my daughter has a recurring vaginal E Coli infection. It is back for the third time in 6 months. Two causes for this……(1) improper hygiene, (2) sexually abused.

    #1018126

    VinniesMommy

    Personally, I would never sleep like that with my child. How old is your daughter? And why doesn’t mom have time to clean off her bed? I’d put the stuff on the floor so that she could sleep in her own bed.

    #1018128

    Samual

    She sees her own girly parts everyday, whats the problem with seeing her mothers? I don’t understand why the human body has suddenly become a disgusting thing.

    #1018138

    mollymae

    No it’s not inappropreiate. All my kids see me naked! Privacy just doesn’t happen in this house.If your daughter is bothered then i’m sure she’d clean off her own bed. Nakedness isn’t abuse or disgusting. It’s modern society’s supicious minds that think that being naked always has to do with sex!

    #1018139

    miraclebaby06

    I dont think its that big of a deal but i dont understand why her mother cant clean off the bed and just move the stuff somewhere else

    #1018160

    twinzplus3

    I guess I’m wondering why the girl can’t clean off her own bed? But no, it’s not that big of a deal.

    #1018162

    KR258

    I am also not getting why the daughter can’t clean off her own bed….

    I don’t think it’s a big deal for her to see girly parts esp since she is a girl but even if she wasn’t it’s her mother…I just don’t think it’s a big deal.

    #1018165

    purelegance

    sorry, i just don’t see the issue with your daughter seeing another female (especially her mother). and if your daughter seems to be old enough to take offense to it — she’s old enough to clean up after herself.

    #1018173

    angelic_ky

    [quote=purelegance]sorry, i just don’t see the issue with your daughter seeing another female (especially her mother). and if your daughter seems to be old enough to take offense to it — she’s old enough to clean up after herself.[/quote]
    ditto

    #1018175

    mcmama

    If I was her mom, I would want some privacy. The real problem is the stuff on the bed. Your daughter is old enough to clean it off if it is her stuff. If it is not, mom needs to get it done.

    My son dealt with having his father stash stuff in his room, and frequently on his bed. It was an invasion of privacy. They had an extra bed, but that wasn’t the point.

    #1018185

    DivasMomma

    I agree with everyone else…not sure how old ur daughter is, but my 3 yr old still showers with my just about everyday. She knows all about privacy and tells me every time we get in the water that she will wash her own parts and mommy will wash her own parts because they are “private”. She also crawls into bed with my DH and I some nights and he only sleeps in underwear. I sleep in a t shirt and underwear as well. Its not a huge deal unless you think she is being abused which i dont think you do

    #1018302

    Lebaseven

    I dont think there is anything to worry about unless the daughter is really old.. like in her 40s ok so let me explain lol. Im 42 and a couple of years ago my husband and I were having some problems so I moved out for a bit but the only place I had to go was to my parents house.. my dad is 73 and my mom is 63 and about 5 years ago my parents joined a nudist ranch lol an activity the took up while in there own home also lol. So while staying with them I knew exactly how many steps it took to get from my room to the bathroom with my eyes closed lol.. totally true story! But seriously at the ranch where my parents go there are whole familes that live there full time and there lots of kids that are being raised there and they are all happy and well adjusted kids. Kids dont think of being nude as anything Dirty or Sexual or shameful .. its adults attitudes that bring that to their minds

    #1018366

    Samual

    [quote=tom33411]My daughter recently told me that she has been sleeping with her mother recently because my daughter’s bed is covered in junk and that her mom doesnt have the time to clean it off for her. The catch is that the mother sleeps only with a t-shirt on and my daughter sees the mother’s private areas when she wakes up in the mornings. Is this innapropriate? it just doesnt seem right to me.
    New/Additional Info:Okay, my daughter is 7 years old. Old enough to clean the stuff herself but would need a nudge from mom to actually do it. The reason her bed was covered in junk was because 3 weeks ago, they moved for the 5th time in 2 years. May I also add that my daughter has a recurring vaginal E Coli infection. It is back for the third time in 6 months. Two causes for this……(1) improper hygiene, (2) sexually abused.[/quote]Actually the most common cause is wiping back to front, the irritation from things such as soaps and wipes make you more susceptible as well. If sexual abuse was a cause, then any sexually active woman would be constantly having E coli infections in that region, obviously I’m not a woman, but even I know, this is not the case. I know there are other parents on here who have daughters who have suffered E coli infections in their vagina and it is a condition that commonly reoccures as it is hard to tell when the infection has totally gone, so in alot of cases after antibiotics bacteria is still left behind so the infection slowly comes back.

    #1018406

    twinzplus3

    Gosh–(I hope you’re sitting down Samual)–I gotta agree with Samual. E coli is a bacteria naturally present in the rectum. How does it get in the vagina? Well. . .Samual explained it pretty well.

    #1018410

    Samual

    And I’m actually alive!

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