Reruns or instant replays are usually references to TV shows or ballgames, but they can also be a source of problems in a marriage. Bringing up things from the past or throwing past mistakes in each others’ faces is not good for any relationship. It is important to forgive and leave the past where it belongs. When we take every opportunity to remind our spouses of past problems or mistakes, it makes it clear that we really haven’t forgiven or moved on. We must learn to let go put it behind us. Maybe the issue was never fully resolved and … Continue reading →