Here’s a short quiz for you. What are the three possible outcomes when we attempt to communicate with our kids? According to Dr. Paul Coleman, they are: 1. The conversation will bring you closer to your kids. 2. The conversation will start an argument. 3. The conversation will lead to avoidance or withdrawal. Our goal is avoid number two. Of course, arguments are sometimes unavoidable; when this happens we have to make sure we clear the air before ending the conversation. Coleman discusses a communication plan called, TENDER. The TENDER method of communicating involves: Teaching – Involves instructing kids in … Continue reading →