He’s had it. He (or she) wants to separate. He swears there isn’t anyone else, but he’s just not happy. He thinks time and some space might help. You didn’t see this coming, and you are devastated, which is of course understandable. Your first thought is probably that you will become a statistic, but it doesn’t necessarily have to be that way. Separation can sometimes be a positive thing, despite the fact that it is a painful and difficult process. If you and your spouse really want things to work out, a separation might actually work to your benefit. It … Continue reading →