When we’re married, we sometimes forget the old adage of making love and not war. A couple I know uses this phrase to help defuse bad situations between them. In fact whenever they begin to have a disagreement, argument or debate – they say this to themselves either internally or out loud to each other. I sat down with them recently to ask them a few questions and they agreed to answer them. Question: What is the phrase that you both use whenever you are disagreeing? Answer:: Make love, not war. My grandparents used to say that whenever my dad … Continue reading →