Toadicus's commentsComments On: EverythingArticles Blogs Journals Photos created by: EveryoneToadicus Dealing with a Narcissistic Mother - Blog Entry27 Jun 2007 11:42 AM I look forward to reading it. Something very weird has happened for me though, I have not been able to talk about this problem with anyone, but after writing, my first ever "Blog" I found myself a lot less angry at her and started to view her as very sick. It doesn't help to keep all the anger inside but I have never found an out let. I am suprised to find it is bleeding off. I almost feel like taking another attempt at contacting her. I think i will wait until I can read the second part tho, no point rushing in on a whim. Dealing with a Narcissistic Mother - Blog Entry25 Jun 2007 01:52 PM I find this very interesting. I have cut myself off from my Mother due to her self-centeredness and more. I have been dealing with it on a daily basis ever since. Its been a year plus a few months now, I still get phone messages and the odd e-mail....they all follow the same pattern, "how are you?...why don't I call or come by..." I have made my points so many times, same old conversation, then the next day, its like I was just talking to the wall .... after a few years of this, I just explained one last time, said I was leaving and didn't plan on coming by or calling any more and left. The following weekend and for months to come, I would get dinner invites and lunch requests, none of which I answered, followed by more messages that I have "missed" dinner here, or "stood up" them on a lunch there. Never, ever one single word about the major issues which 'caused this..... Now, not a day goes past which I don't think about my mom, but I just can't afford to deal with her. I get real angry when i do talk to her, I mean was overboard, snapping teeth, locked jaw and I go red faced. |
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