My last article gave some of my thoughts on jealousy. The topic of jealousy came about from an article that I wrote discussing running into an ex boyfriend or an ex girlfriend. One of my readers commented that she is still very close to her ex boyfriend and that her current boyfriend has no problem with the friendship. In my last article, I commented that I do not believe that jealousy is always tied to mistrust. I feel that a small amount of jealousy is in our human nature. Jealousy begins well before any intimate relationships. There is much more … Continue reading →

This can be a fun topic, but it can also be one that deeply troubles a marriage. When the sex drive is depressed in the husband, the wife or both, it’s difficult to discover what makes one or the other feel sexy or desirable. The inherent fear and danger we feel when we don’t feel sexy is that our partner’s may go elsewhere or perhaps we should. If our partner doesn’t find us sexy or attractive and doesn’t meet our needs, should we have the affair? Should they? Will we? Will they? These types of questions are troubling on a … Continue reading →