There are many cases in a relationship and marriage when a couple needs to discuss serious issues. One well known phrase to begin one of those serious talks is “we need to talk”. Each time that I hear this phrase, it automatically sets up a negative tone in my mind. It refers to a problem at hand and often a complaint from a spouse or mate. Therefore, when needing to discuss a serious issue with a partner, I suggest using a more positive tone. Much in what you receive from a conversation goes into what you put into it. If … Continue reading →