This can be a fun topic, but it can also be one that deeply troubles a marriage. When the sex drive is depressed in the husband, the wife or both, it’s difficult to discover what makes one or the other feel sexy or desirable. The inherent fear and danger we feel when we don’t feel sexy is that our partner’s may go elsewhere or perhaps we should. If our partner doesn’t find us sexy or attractive and doesn’t meet our needs, should we have the affair? Should they? Will we? Will they? These types of questions are troubling on a … Continue reading →