There is nothing so heart wrenching or a new parent than the moment when you need to leave your baby with someone else for the first time. Whether it is to go back to work, out on a date with your spouse, or even in the nursery at church, handing your baby over to another’s care can be really tough. Here are some tips that may make it easier.
Let go of the guilt and nerves
I really believe that your baby can sense your guilt or apprehension when you have to leave him or her for the first time with another caregiver. It may be natural for you to have these emotions, but realize that presenting a calm demeanor will help your baby view the separation as something normal and nothing to fear.
Realize that your baby is unique
Just because your sister’s child would happily go to anyone from the time she was born does not mean that there is something wrong with your child if she behaves differently. Little people have their own little personalities just as do older kids. Some will jump at the chance to meet someone new while others hold back and need more security.
Ease into it
If you have a choice in the matter, then you may want to wait to leave your baby in someone else’s care at a latter date. Sometimes babies need a few days, weeks or months until they are ready to be left away from their parents or main caregiver. You can also help your baby become acclimated to the situation by leaving her for short periods of time and then increasing that time. Have the sitter come over to your house and play to help your baby become familiar with her new friend, or visit the daycare center a few times before the big day.
Mary Ann Romans writes about everything related to saving money in the Frugal Blog, creating a home in the Home Blog, caring for little ones in the Baby Blog and now relationships in the Marriage Blog. You can read more of her articles by clicking here or subscribe to the blog using the subscription box on the right.
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