One of the most wonderful blessings of the temple is the chance for our families to be together forever. While marriages are always celebrated, sealings that take place at a later date may not always be. It is important to still honor this special occasion. The amount of celebration should go along with the couple’s comfort level.
If the couple is being sealed to their children you can offer to take pictures of the family to honor this occasion. It may be nice to have the entire family dressed in white or Sunday clothes with the temple in the background. You may want to frame this with a mat that says “Forever Families.” Another great gift would be an offer to baby-sit so that the couple can spend some time alone celebrating as well.
Some couples will have a reception or small dinner to celebrate this day with their close friends and family. This is really a chance to spend time together. You can wish the couple congratulations on taking this wonderful step. Usually gifts are not expected at an event like this.
If the couple seems to want to keep this a private event, you can send a short note or card that expresses your feelings about this wonderful event. It is important that you respect their wishes, but still show your support and joy of their accomplishment. If the couple is shy or private they will appreciate your willingness to be discreet on the matter.
Similarly you may want to do something along these lines when an adopted child is sealed to her parents. A letter, pictures or a small gift can help to make the day more memorable for the family. A charm bracelet can be a great gift for the mother. You can purchase a temple charm and then other charms to represent each of the children in the family.
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