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China Adoption Book Review Series: Wanting a Daughter, Part Two: Chinese Do Adopt Daughters

My last blog shared some of Kay Ann Johnson’s research from her book Wanting a Daughter, Needing a Son. This blog continues with more of Johnson’s research, this time in an area which I have never seen addressed in all the reading I’ve done about adoption in China. This topic is the adoption of Chinese foundlings by Chinese parents in China.

Johnson began her research interested in the situation of birthparents who abandoned children. She soon discovered a greater interest in what became of the children. Only a minority, she says, (her book was published in 2004) are adopted abroad, and only a minority are raised in orphanages. What becomes of the girls who remain in China?

Westerners sometimes have certain stereotypes about Chinese people and adoption: That girls are nothing in China and only Westerners would adopt them, and that Chinese people don’t adopt out of concern for “purity of bloodline”.

Johnson did something which to my knowledge no one had thought to do before: she and her Chinese colleagues interviewed 800 Chinese adoptive families between 1995 and 2000. Most of these were in south-central China, but a Chinese researcher interviewed 400 more adoptive families, this time from all over China, and found similar results.

Some of these findings:

Nearly 60% of the adopted children were abandoned, which seems to defy the contention that purity of blood is all to the Chinese.

On the other hand, families who already had a boy were much more likely to adopt abandoned children (who were overwhelmingly girls). Perhaps there is a vestige of prejudice (in Western countries too) of wanting a son to be of the same bloodline.

Johnson found a widespread desire among Chinese people to have both a daughter and a son. She even found a saying, “A son and a daughter make a family complete.”

My next blog will discuss Johnson’s research on the hurdles faced by adoptive parents in China.

Please see these related blogs:


Book Review: The White Swan Express

Book Review: Motherbridge of Love

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About Pam Connell

Pam Connell is a mother of three by both birth and adoption. She has worked in education, child care, social services, ministry and journalism. She resides near Seattle with her husband Charles and their three children. Pam is currently primarily a Stay-at-Home-Mom to Patrick, age 8, who was born to her; Meg, age 6, and Regina, age 3, who are biological half-sisters adopted from Korea. She also teaches preschoolers twice a week and does some writing. Her activities include volunteer work at school, church, Cub Scouts and a local Birth to Three Early Intervention Program. Her hobbies include reading, writing, travel, camping, walking in the woods, swimming and scrapbooking. Pam is a graduate of Seattle University and Gonzaga University. Her fields of study included journalism, religious education/pastoral ministry, political science and management. She served as a writer and editor of the college weekly newspaper and has been Program Coordinator of a Family Resource Center and Family Literacy Program, Volunteer Coordinator at a church, Religion Teacher, Preschool Teacher, Youth Ministry Coordinator, Camp Counselor and Nanny. Pam is an avid reader and continuing student in the areas of education, child development, adoption and public policy. She is eager to share her experiences as a mother by birth and by international adoption, as a mother of three kids of different learning styles and personalities, as a mother of kids of different races, and most of all as a mom of three wonderful kids!