Graham Strachan wrote a piece in response to Devvy Kidd’s article entitled, “America Has Lost Its Manhood”. In his response, he points out that America is losing its manhood because of the women supporting radical feminism and the idea that we need men like “a fish needs a bicycle”.
Devvy Kid wants to know where all the good men are. She wants to know why men are not rising up to protect their women anymore. She wants to know why men are not out busting their you-know-what’s to support their families anymore. “Where have all the good men gone?” she asks.
I’ll tell you where they are Devvy. They’re hiding, and if I were a man, I would be too.
We cannot as a womanhood bash men and then expect them to be excellent husbands and fathers. We cannot, as a womanhood believe the mentality that we “need a man like a fish needs a bicycle” and expect men to rise to our defense.
We spend so much time in our marriages expecting to be treated as an equal and only being able to find that equality in some other way than simply loving, appreciating, respecting and taking care of our men. Why? Why do we look outward to find our place and role in our marriages, when it’s smacking us right in the face?
When we marry, taking on the role of a wife has become so demeaning and so crude (thank you feminists) that women don’t even know how to be wives anymore. Take a look at our increasing divorce rate. Take a look at the number of men who cheat on their wives. Yes, we can blame it all on him; we can blame adultery as a “male disease”, but what about our part? What are we doing to keep our men at home, and in our beds? Treating them like you don’t need or want them is probably not the wisest step.
Wives need to rise up and reclaim our position in this world, and be proud to be a woman who supports her husband and takes care of her family. There is nothing wrong with being that woman, and it doesn’t make you any less of a valuable human being to do so.
Stop beating down your husbands, ladies. Take care of them. Be loving and sweet and adorable and watch how quickly your knight in shining armor appears. Do you part and watch them do theirs.
And the next time you complain about your husband, take a good, long look at yourself first.