I know what some of you are thinking. You are thinking “My goodness you can’t put your child on a leash like an animal!” I know what some others of you are thinking, “My child is so active. Where do I get this?” My first three children would never have required this type of backpack. However my fourth child is very difficult to keep in control and is also fiercely independent. I cannot tell you how many times I turn around and my heart stops because she is about five feet away. I know five feet is not much but an almost three year old who wanders and leaves my direct line of vision my heart stops. So, I either have to make her always sit in a cart, which they do not have at some stores, or bring a stroller. Now that is not unreasonable but there are times when a child needs to learn how to walk beside you and should be allowed to explore and feel her independence. For such times a “By My Side” backpack may be just the thing to keep your child safe. I have never found these to be offensive but logical safety measures.
The “By My Side” backpack is adorable and my child begged to wear it. She wears it all the time around the house or anywhere since she loves the idea of having a backpack. While, I do not think this is necessary for a trip to the grocery store you may want to consider such steps for Disneyland or a festival where a small child could wander off in an instant while you are standing in line for ice cream.
I know what some are thinking. They are thinking that the parent should be watching her child better or just keep her confined. I like to deal in realism. I realistically cannot and do not want to confine my child. She is old enough to want to walk and explore. I love that. I realistically cannot keep my eye on her nonstop no matter how hard I try. So, while this may not be for everyone, it is a fun and safe way to keep your child in your sight while allowing for freedom. That’s right, this is allowing freedom.
Tip: My child loves the backpack but not the “lead”. She was not used to it after a while she protested and I was not willing to hang on while she struggled. So, I allow her to wear it as a backpack and every now and then when necessary explain to her I need to put the other part back on. She complies and is happy. If you decide to use something like this please start at an early age so it inspires a sense of freedom and not a loss in mobility.