The best gift that you can give to someone and to yourself is to give the gift of forgiveness. There are hurts that many of us carry within us, wrongs that have been done intentionally or unintentionally. Although you may not focus on these things, you may find old feelings of anger or hurt that come up suddenly. It can be difficult to forgive someone, especially when they do not admit that they have done anything wrong. But forgiveness can free both of you from negative feelings and give you a chance at peace.
Take time today to think of one thing that you have been holding onto and decide to let it go. This is not always easy, but it is possible. The hurt may be such that you do not want to contact the person to let him know that you have forgiven him. If this is the case, that is fine. The Lord will know that you have finally been able to forgive. In the future you may be able to treat the offender with more kindness and show your forgiveness at that time.
Forgiveness is not necessarily an easy process. However, if you turn to the Lord for help, it will come. The Savior suffered all things on this earth, and He truly understands the feelings that you have regarding this matter. As you acknowledge these feelings, move forward and let go of them, the Savior will take on the burden that you are carrying within yourself.
As you let go of this one hurt this holiday season, you may be able to look at other hurts and let them go. Try to not take offense and look for the best in those around you. This will help you to forgive more easily. It can also help you understand the motivation of those around you a little bit better.
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