Heather wrote very good articles about legislating marriage that gave us some things to think about. She and I have differing opinions, and she has graciously allowed me voice my opinion here. Debate and sharing different opinions are important if we hope to learn from each other.
Whether you believe that “same sex marriage” does not affect anyone except the people who practice it or you believe that redefining marriage harms the institution and society as a whole, you are entitled to express your opinion. One of the great things about this country is the ability to speak freely. Whether we agree or not, we have the right, the duty, to voice our feelings.
It is through civil dialogue that we learn what drives people in either direction, and understanding the underlying issues is often what leads us to find ways to compromise.
Should there be compromise when it comes to drastically altering the institution that has been deemed the cornerstone of our society? Why should a fractional minority be allowed to dismantle a long held tradition against the objection of the majority? More importantly, should we allow activist judges to make the decision for us, stifling the debate, silencing opposition without going through the proper channels?
Heather discussed the separation of powers, and it is a key element in regard to this issue. The judiciary does not have the power to legislate, but a ruling in Massachusetts could very well re-write family law nationwide.
This is the reason so many people feel strongly about amending the Constitution. Understand that creating and passing an amendment to our founding document is an arduous process. It is very difficult to accomplish and should never be taken lightly. The fact that the majority of people in this country agree that it is necessary, should be a clear message regarding their high regard for marriage.
While some concerns within this debate do offer room for compromise, the overall issue, redefining the institution in order to garner acceptance for the gay lifestyle, is not one of them as far as the majority is concerned.
I personally feel that certain issues, including making medical decisions and visiting one’s significant other in the hospital should be open to everyone. However, many of the benefits that are sought by gay marriage activists can be obtained through means other than redefining traditional marriage.
*There are many arguments regarding this issue. Please check back tomorrow to read more.