So you decided to attend your company’s holiday party—congratulations! Now that you have made it over the first hurdle–talking yourself into attending (see my previous blog on that topic)—there are just a few rules you should keep in mind before sashaying your way into party central:
Dress Appropriately
First and foremost be sure to dress appropriately for the occasion. Etiquette experts say that this rule especially applies to women who sometimes use company parties to strut their stuff. Here’s my rule of thumb: If you think it’s something Paris Hilton would sport—don’t wear it. Anything short, tight or revealing should stay in the closet. Yes, it’s a party, but it’s a company party. If you have worked hard to create a professional image, then don’t blow it by wearing revealing clothes that can alter your coworkers’ and boss’ perception of you as a competent professional.
Act Appropriately
Plain and simple: Behave Yourself. Remember this is an office party not a tailgate party with your buddies in the parking lot of Lambeau Field. That means, no swearing, no dirty jokes, no belching contests, no sophomoric behavior at all. You’re a professional remember?
Arrive Early or At Least On Time
If your boss is anything like my former boss, then it would behoove you to be on time. My former boss would take notes on who showed up late for the party. Also, if you arrive early it gives you the opportunity to talk with senior executives while things are still relatively quiet.
Mingle Mingle Mingle
I’m not just talking about socializing with the members of your department, with whom you work with day in and day out. Take the opportunity to introduce yourselves to others outside your department. Break away from your comfort zone. You never know who may be able help your career.
Don’t Get Drunk
This may be the most important rule in Office Party 101. Free alcohol often begets excessive drinking. Avoid the temptation. Stay in control. You do not want to do anything embarrassing that may haunt you forever. Even if your alcohol-induced actions do not get you fired, they could hurt your chances for advancement.
Be Friendly—To A Degree
Again remember that this is an O-F-F-I-C-E party. It’s not the place to try out your latest pickup lines. That kind of behavior is often seen as sexual harassment. Save your lines for someplace else.
Avoid Talking Business
Yes, the company holiday party is a great venue to mingle with supervisors outside of the office, but don’t abuse the venue. This is not the time to approach your boss with a new business idea. Save that for Monday morning. Instead, use the time to find out about his or her interests outside of the office. Try to connect with him or her on a personal level (but not too personal). It could help when it comes time for salary reviews.
Do you have any embarrassing office party stories to share?
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