Co-parenting is not always easy. It is inevitable that you and your ex will have varying opinions on a variety of issues, from discipline to education to religion. However, religious differences can really come to a head around holidays, such as Easter, when one parent feels that it is important the children attend a religious service, while the other parent does not.
If your children will be spending Easter with a parent who does not share your views on the importance of attending church on this sacred day, there are some things you can do to take action.
First, try to talk to the other parent about why this is so important to you. Talking calmly and rationally may have a bigger impact than yelling and arguing. However, if the other parent simply refuses to bring the children to church despite your feelings, you really can’t force them. Instead, focus your efforts on teaching your children about Easter yourself.
Read books about the true meaning of Easter. Be sure to stop and discuss events taking place in the book. Ask your children to reiterate what is being said to make sure that they understand.
Read church passages that talk about the crucifixion and resurrection of Christ. Explain the passages in words that your children can understand. Again, ask questions to make sure they understand what you are teaching them.
Print coloring pages from the Internet that show images of the history of Easter. While your children are coloring, discuss what is going on in the images. This could also be combined with reading Bible passages about the scene in the picture.
You can also do an Easter craft that can help your child develop a better understanding of the true meaning of Easter. Or, teach your children a prayer or song about Easter and religion. One popular gospel children’s song is “Jesus Loves Me.”