Have you ever met anyone from the Internet in person?

Well, the day is here. Today is the day I get to meet Spoons, Gobs, True, Tharm, Phantom, and a slew of others. Those are, of course, not their real names. Even if I remembered their real names, it would feel strange calling them by them. I’ve been chatting in a forum for over a year now with these people. We’ve built friendships of varying levels, from tolerating some of them to great a-feck-shun for others. Some of them have already met each other in person. Many have gone to various events together. With four children and a husband who … Continue reading

Internet Sex Crimes: Florida Gets Tough

If you have children, this is one of those stories that just makes you applaud. Earlier this week, the Florida State Legislature unanimously approved a new bill. This bill sets a maximum 15-year prison term for anyone who contacts a child online and attempts to meet that child for sexual purposes (this also applies in sting operations where volunteers and law enforcement pose as children online). This bill passes easily in the Senate, which makes sense. After all, who could really be in favor of child molesters and predators? Leaders of the Florida Sheriffs Association, perhaps motivated by the bill, … Continue reading

Parents Guilty, MySpace Not to Blame

I blogged last month ago about lawsuits filed against MySpace in the cases of four underage females who were sexually abused by individuals met on the site. In the case of 15 year old Texas female, “Julie Doe,” MySpace was sued for $30 million dollars by the girl’s parents who levied charges of negligence against News Corp, the parent company of MySpace, for failing to protect underage members from online predators. According to court documents, then 13-year-old Julie Doe lied about her age, claiming to be 18 when joining the site. She was contacted by college freshman Pete Solis, with … Continue reading

Speech is Coming to Second Life

Calling all Second Life addicts! Linden Labs is rolling out a beta test for in-game person-to-person speech as part of its continuing efforts towards creating a richer, more immersive virtual environment. In addition to current instant messaging capabilities, residents of Linden will soon be able to engage in private one-on-one voice communication and group discussions. Like conversation in your first life, the new system will utilize spatial awareness to mimic real speech, adjusting volume based on distance and direction of the speaker. Up to 100 people will be able to chat on one connection at the same time. Linden Lab … Continue reading

Online 911 System May Help in Future Disasters

Social networking may finally come of age as something truly beneficial. University of Maryland researchers Ben Shneiderman and Jennifer Preece outlined a proposal last week for the development of a socially networked 911 center that could serve as a “community response grid” in the event of a flood, heat wave or other emergency. Shneiderman was inspired to create an online 911 center after searching for resources online last year and finding no way for citizens to report emergency situations online. During Hurricane Katrina, he said, online communication might have enabled people to find more ways to get out of the … Continue reading

Netiquette Part II: Be a Good Citizen in Your Online Community

Online communities can be a great place to share information and make new friends. But, like all other areas of internet subculture, there are unwritten rules that make their usage more enjoyable and beneficial for everyone, and others that will keep you safe. WWW Means WORLD WIDE WEB Message boards and other online communities (like here at families.com) often feel like safe, self contained communities of friends you know. Forget that thought. A public message board is available to anyone. They are archived by search engines and external sites like the Wayback Machine making them available long after the original … Continue reading

Netiquette: Part I – Using Proper Email Etiquette

These days, everyone is wired. Unfortunately, just because Great Aunt Mary learned how to send email and surf the web, doesn’t mean she picked up the basics of netiquette along the way. What’s netiquette, you ask? Netiquette is the unofficial rules defining proper behavior on the internet–whether sending mail, posting in online communities and message boards, or chatting. For the purpose of this blog, we’ll tackle the basics of email etiquette. We’ll cover more tomorrow. TYPING IN ALL CAPS IS CONSIDERED SHOUTING Most people don’t appreciate being shouted at. Always use lower case unless you’re trying to show emphasis. Forwards … Continue reading

Girls Are Geeks Too

I’ve always been a little bit amused by the idea that geek girls are somewhat of a rare breed. Perhaps this has something to do with the fact I was learning to code BASIC before I knew how to wear make-up. Or, maybe it’s compensation for the glazed “I don’t understand” look you’d see from me in front of something domestic like a sewing machine. Martha Stewart, I’m not (but then, I’ve never done jail time either). Either way, the idea that science and technology are not the forte of the feminine set is decidedly foreign to me, despite that … Continue reading

Bloggers for Hire

Bloggers are changing the world. Once upon a time the big media outlets – television and newspapers – were the ones who owned all the information. Noam Chomsky, U.S. media and foreign policy critic, remarked, “the media serve the interests of state and corporate power, which are closely interlinked, framing their reporting and analysis in a manner supportive of established privilege and limited debate and discussion accordingly.” It is this interlinking relationship between traditional media and the powers-that-be that brings questions of murky motivations behind your “fair and balanced” TV news. Blogging has leveled the playing field. Anyone with a … Continue reading

How Long Do You Spend On The Internet?

How much time do you spend on the Internet? Last night I sat down on the sofa to watch TV with my significant other. He was going to go get something out of his car, so I picked up my laptop and turned it on thinking I would have time to check my email before he got back.. As soon as I started to sign on I was attacked with a “Why do you always do that?” A discussion ensued where I told him I intended on only checking my email, and he responded with the statement that it was … Continue reading