Last week, I blogged about summer reading programs. If you don’t have access to a library offering such a program, or if your kids aren’t really excited about what’s being offered, you can design a program specifically tailored to your family.
First, decide a reasonable goal. Some children really struggle with reading, while others could do it morning, noon, and night. If you are working with multiple children, set goals for each of them that will cause them to stretch, just a little bit, but aren’t so unattainable that the child will feel overwhelmed.
Second, decide what the rewards will be. Maybe Johnny likes chocolate but Susie likes fruity candy. Johnny likes roller skating but Susie prefers miniature golf. Choose a reward that will mean something to that particular child, something that they will want to work toward. You can give them a small prize for reaching a smaller goal, or they can save up until they’ve earned a larger reward. Just as every child’s personality is different, so are their “hot buttons.”
Third, help your child find books that will appeal to them. There’s nothing more miserable than trying to force yourself to read a book that’s boring you to tears. You can find great ideas for books by talking to your friends about what their kids like to read, by putting different search terms into the Internet, or – I don’t know, this may be a long shot but checking out the media blogs here on Families.com.
Fourth, designate a time for reading. The television and stereo should be off and the house should be as quiet as you can make it. (If you’re snickering right now, that’s okay – I know I’m asking the impossible.) Some parents find their children read best in the morning, and they earn play time by reading. Others find that reading just before bed helps their child sleep. You find a time that works for your family.
Fifth, let your child see you reading. I can’t say it enough – children who see their parents read have a greater chance of becoming readers themselves.
With great rewards, interesting books, and supportive parents, your kids can’t possibly fail to have success.
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