Negative Feelings toward Stepchildren, Part III

When we feel taken for granted, it hurts. It is not conducive to a happy relationship with stepchildren, or a spouse. That’s why communication is necessary. Your spouse also has the responsibility of working to ensure that his or her children treat you with respect and courtesy. Yet, you may need to bring it to his or her attention. Try to gently discuss these issues with your spouse, without children present. Explain how you feel, without accusing. Use “I statements,” such as “I feel taken for granted,” instead of “You (or your kids) don’t appreciate me.” Try to frame the … Continue reading

Relationship Dynamics: Enhancing Your Listening Skills

Listening is one of the best skills a couple can develop together and individually in order to enhance their relationship. While communication is highlighted as one of the major areas where relationships breakdown, it’s not just about what you say, but what you hear and because listening is a skill that needs to be cultivated – a good listener can go a long way towards keeping the channels of communication open. It’s important to remember that listening skills have to be developed on an individual, person to person basis – you may not be able to improve your spouse’s listening … Continue reading

Fitness Magazines for Mom

Another great Mother’s Day present idea might be some magazine subscriptions. Subscriptions deliver the magazine to the door at a significantly reduced cost. There are only a few magazines that we subscribe to around here, but my husband likes to renew them annually around my birthday or Mother’s Day as a way of saying he loves me. Among some of my favorite fitness magazines is: Prevention Although this magazine is aimed at people from the ages of 40 to 65, I enjoy reading the material they provide. They focus on a natural approach to healthy and there are a lot … Continue reading