One way to ease tension in a marriage is to learn to let go. Sometimes, we just try too hard. We have to give ourselves and everyone else a break. Here is an example: You start to pull dinner out of the oven, but the pan slips out of your hand. You watch as your dog eats your family’s dinner from the kitchen floor. What do you do? 1) Silently clean the mess, seething inside. 2) Cry or have an outburst. 3) Calmly clean up and look for something else to serve. 4) Blow it off, say, “Oh, well, I … Continue reading →