It is incredibly painful to find out your spouse is having an affair. That’s an understatement, but there are other emotions that go along with the hurt. You feel a sense of shock, abandonment, and it’s a big hit to your self-esteem. You wonder what’s wrong with you or what you did wrong. Well, no matter what mistakes you might have made or what problems exist in your marriage, an affair is not your fault. An affair is a choice and only the person who made that choice is accountable. Your spouse may try to blame you, and you may … Continue reading →