Mom, Mom, Mom, Mom, Mom!

I value manners. I work in a public place that is frequented by children. Often, these children ask me for things. Sometimes they ask with a please and a thank you, and at these times I am very impressed, especially if they do it unprompted. If they do it when prompted, I am especially impressed with their parents. One of my dearest wishes is to have a child who asks with a please and a thank you. I know that it might seem small and petty, but knowing how to ask is such an important social skill. When you ask … Continue reading

Role Play Can Help Children With Social Issues

Having watched three children almost grow up, I have to say that dealing with socialization and social issues is one of the most difficult and painful ongoing lessons of childhood. Different kids respond to the challenges of social interactions differently and some of the toughest lessons are learned from situations we parents have virtually no control over. We can help our kids with those lessons, however, and one of the ways we can help is through role play and discussing what could and can be done. Of course, older kids are probably not going to want to “role play” but … Continue reading